silence…
Most people believe that contradiction is a kind of motivating force. The frictions and efforts it causes gives us a sense of exhilaration and makes us think we are alive. Therefore, we are constantly making noise, tensing, pushing, and fighting, while always being hungry for sensations. And it is so paradoxical, because the really great things always happen in silence, hidden from the eyes of the clamoring man. It’s in silence that trees and flowers grow, in silence that the sun appears on the horizon, in silence that love fills our hearts, and it is always in silence that we die…
paradox-psychology
is the psychology of facts
paradox-psychology
is the psychology of facts
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In order for the transformative and liberating power of the ITS approach can also be used in therapeutic situations, János Jankai and his wife has developed Paradox-Psychology as a self-improvement and therapeutic method. In doing so, a movement of a new generation of therapists has been born.
Paradox-Psychology does not help by emphasizing the individual’s distinction from others (i.e. self-identity), but by doing quite the opposite. It finally abandons the erroneous psychoanalytic model that interprets and fragments the human being according to a dualistic mindset, and instead follows the direction most appropriate to the fulfillment of life.
Therapy is healing, making whole. This is not an opinion, but a fact. Therefore, any system that leaves the individual on the horns of a dualistic dilemma is at best a bold despair.
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The essence of Paradox-Psychology is the following:
Humans exist not by their thoughts but by their connections, like everything else. Just as the roots of a tree are connected to the earth and its leaves to the sunlight, so humans are connected to the world around them. To exist, therefore, means to be connected. Consequently, if there is no connection, there is no life.
The quality of our relationships is determined by the quality of our internal psychological structure. If, as we could already read on the site page of ITS, this is governed by the dualistic mindset nurtured by the physical world, our relationships will be characterized by limitations, communication through images, and conflicts arising from all these. So, to sort out our problems – whether they be relationship, work or other neurotic conditions – we need to free our psyche from the grip of our dualistic thinking. Paradox-Psychology, as a therapeutic method, is uniquely able to help us in this.
It reveals in an unprecedented way the internal paradoxical processes – including unconscious parts – that arise in the mind as a result of a dualistic mindset, and then corrects them through specific exercises. The result is not just a superficial and partial change, but a total transformation. To put it simply, it brings order. And where there is order, there is mental health.
A moment of order is like finally emerging from the darkness of limitations into the sunlight and being revitalized by fresh air.
By using Paradox-Psychology, we can take our assistance to a new level of extraordinary experience and productivity, opening up new horizons in the resolution of psychological problems. Paradox-Psychology does not point the way, but it points to the facts passively, yet encouraging action. It does not offer various ideas of when we should do what, but it shows us how we can begin the work by which we can become real creators and not copycats. And there is a big difference between the two.
You can read about the creation of Paradox-Psychology in a more personal way at jankaijanos.hu, and its use will be discussed in detail in the forthcoming book „No Bargain”.
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being together
To enter the system of consciousness and then to understand that system is freedom. Doing this we can realize something extraordinary. Namely, that the world is not a fantasy or a delusion of the mind, but a terrible reality with all its pain and suffering. And all of this is created by man through his paradoxical way of thinking. As long as we are not willing to see this in its reality, we cannot really be together with anyone or cooperate. And without togetherness, however skilled we may be, our assistance will remain worthless…
being together
To enter the system of consciousness and then to understand that system is freedom. Doing this we can realize something extraordinary. Namely, that the world is not a fantasy or a delusion of the mind, but a terrible reality with all its pain and suffering. And all of this is created by man through his paradoxical way of thinking. As long as we are not willing to see this in its reality, we cannot really be together with anyone or cooperate. And without togetherness, however skilled we may be, our assistance will remain worthless…
